How to Win Her Heart
Because the first man a girl gives her heart to is her dad, you have the honor of setting the standard for your daughter's future romantic relationships. Here are some simple tips to make any date memorable.

Plan the Date - Preparation and planning show that you value the time you have with her.

Treat Her Like A Lady - It’s all in the little gestures, like opening the door for her and being courteous.

Respect Her Choices - Ask her what she would like to do and be attentive to her likes and dislikes.

Set A Positive Tone - Keep it fun and lighthearted. Refrain from lecturing or problem-solving.

Don’t Embarrass Her - Be sensitive to her reaction to what you do.

Give Her Your Full Attention - Turn off your mobile phone, maintain eye contact, and listen carefully.

Don’t Interrupt - Give her time to think and speak her mind freely.

Collect Memories - Print out photos or bring back something to remember the date by. Consider giving her a purity ring to signify your commitment to protecting her purity until her wedding day.



Starting a Conversation
Sometimes we just need a little starter to begin a wonderful conversation. Here are some questions to get the ball rolling.

Remember to listen and refrain from jumping in with advice too soon. Let her share what's really on her mind even if it sounds strange to you!

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What would you do if you were given a million dollars today?
What is your favourite book or movie and why?
What is the three nicest thing anyone has ever said
about you?
What do you enjoy doing the most?
What do you feel least confident doing?
What is one thing you've never done that you would really
like to do?
What do you think you will be like when you’re 30? Is there
anyone whom you’d want to be like?
What do you like the most about being a teenager? What is
the toughest part?
Do you think you are more like Mom or Dad? In what way?
How do you know when someone really is in love with
you?



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